I'm 4cm dilated already and have an appt Tuesday to "see where I'm at" if I make it there. My question is, with thanksgiving being on Thursday- if I have this baby beforehand, should I bring him to thanksgiving dinner or stick this one out? I love being with family and I don't think I'd be second guessing but one of my husbands nieces (teen) is bringing 2 friends to thanksgiving dinner and there will also be some extended family with little ones (babies and toddlers). Not sure I want my newborn around all these people, but I don't want to come off as rude.