Bikini Area

Eve
Okay so I have a problem with my bikini area breaking out when I shave. I tend to get ingrown hairs and dark scaring marks from them. I need to figure out how to eliminate the scaring because me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex but I'm nervous to do it knowing I have that problem down there. I don't think it looks attractive at all, please help 😭!!!
Btw.. I'm 16.