Wanna have a baby shower for my second daughter . no I don't want it to get free stuff but I feel like my first daughter was celebrated by everyone why doesn't my second desurve it also. All I keep hearing is its a waste of money or who's gonna come blah blah blah . my mom thru my first one and was very excited about it an that was all she could talk about when I was pregnant but now she acting like this babys not important