Having a miscarriage for 3 days now at 11 weeks pregnant. Went to the ER because it's the worst at 2:30 AM!!! I was told my cervix wasn't even open. I did explain how I already knew it was a miscarriage but also how I felt about the pain and how I felt like it wasn't going to pass. They told me a D&C wouldn't be an option until a week of trying to pass has gone by.  The pain pills only work for an hour and even then I still feel the pain a little. I was told it would be like a period cramp but this is JUST like LABOR‼️‼️ There's pain ALL the time but every now and then there's that EXCRUCIATING pain like its a contraction and back pain!!! I'm going through LABOR with my dead baby and my cervix won't open and my husband doesn't understand especially at 2:30 AM when he's trying to sleep for work 😭. I leave our room to lay in the tub but he's a snuggler and it still bothers him 😭