I am getting married next Saturday and I am really excited. It is suppose to cold where I live, and my wedding is out side. Hubby to be and I scaled down our wedding to immediate family only and a select few friends. We did this because we are also having a baby and want to move from our apartment to a house before she comes. I had made a post showing our marriage license and I made a side note to the ones who are coming to dress warm. I became a little bothered that I had two cousins respond stating they wish they could make it but they have to work. Well I want to reply back that "since I didn't send them an invitation I didn't have any expectations of them being at my wedding." I don't want to sound rude, so i am venting here instead but why would people post they can't come when they weren't invited?