To sum up these marriage posts, some people dont believe in marriage cuz so many men cheat, lie, and break every vow. You would think some of these men are single that is y it mayb viewed as a "piece of paper". on the other hand, marriage intended to be a form of the uttermost committment to another person. Nowadays, most people in the marriage don't honor any vow.  by the way i am happily married 11 yrs :/). hope thst clears up the marriage rants