I found out on 10/13 that we were expecting a new addition. I had my first ob appt on 10/27 sono showed an empty sac and I was asked to follow up in  2 weeks. Next visit 11/9 showed me to be 5 weeks 5 days with heartbeat. Something felt off so I asked to be seen 11/13 and was again told things looked fine. there was question if they were measuring 2 different babies because I again was measured and showed to be 5w5d with heartbeat. On 11/17 after "relations" I had some brown some spotting. This cont thru 11/20 (very litter and only on tp) but I called doc and was seen. 11/20 I was again told baby measured 5w5d this time with no heartbeat. I was given several options go for a more formal sono, come back for another office visit on Monday, have labs to check levels, start needs to start miscarriage, or think about d&c. I opted to schedule for the d&c and the procedure was done 11/22. My husband and I are Christians and view this as God's will. I also miscarried 3/24/12 and 3/17/14 was told that my daughter had a vanishing twin. All of which we view as part of a greater plan. It is hard for people to understand that we really are ok. I feel so bad for other women who are struggling with loss because my first was terrible but I can't explain to people the peace that  have.