Anyone dealing with a SO with ED?

Question

My SO (30's)has low libido, can't finish ususally, and ED (takes meds for it). It is hard at times being with someone who has sexual performance issues. I feel like i am with a 80 yr old. anyone dealin wit this n how do u cope?

Answer

Hi. I'm in the same boat. I have a higher than average libido and my SO has the same issues.

We only have sex two to three times a year because of it, and that's not even close enough to tolerable for me.

So two things have helped immensely. A fwb. Talk to your guy about it. Mine suggested it to me (he doesn't like monogamous relationships anyways) and it took a while to warm up to the idea, but it's saved our relationship. If you can have sex without getting emotionally attached and everyone involved is on board with it, then do it.

Another thing that's helped is sex toys - good ones. I highly recomend bad-dragon.com for really cool looking customizable fantasy dildos (there are a few based off real animals and those weird me out so I just ignore those). Their stuff is high quality - definitely worth the money.

Anyone dealing with a SO with ED?

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