At 25 years old, I have found myself in love with a 36 year old with a vasectomy. He is father to two wonderful seven year old twins and about a year ago, he had a vasectomy thinking he never wanted anymore children. Then he met me and has happily agreed to get a reversal and have at least one more child. I'm beyond happy he is willing to make such a huge change for me, but also very apprehensive.