My boyfriend often disappears for hours, I always know he's doing something, and in the past he's lied about things and it's later turned out to be different from what he said, he's never cheated and I never believe he would but I can't cope with the consistent lies and worry about what he's doing, I don't care what he does I just want him to be honest with me and tell me the truth, I've tried to tell him before and he's agreed he's wrong and he has apologised but he still does it again, I'm reaching the end of what I can take but I'm so in love with him and I have no idea what to do I really need to know what I can do to change it, what can I say to him get him to realise how much it hurts me