Cherry not popped?

Question

After losing my virginity I was expecting blood like how my friends told me it'd be, but there was none at all! 
Having sex many times after that and still no blood, is this normal? Is something wrong with me? Or is it still not popped?

Answer

We teach women that sex is supposed to hurt the first time, and that you're supposed to bleed. Neither are true. Sex never hurts if your body is fully "involved" and if you've used tanpons most likely your hyman has been severed already. Plus, it shouldn't bleed period, if you bleed you either aren't lubricated enough, or he's being too rough on you. Either way, nothing is wrong with you.

OBGYN nurse of 3 years

Answer

I never bled when I lost my card. So I'm guessing it's good?

Answer

Some people have a high enough hymen that it will never break. Everyone is different.

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Mind never bled! I definitely felt the 'pop', but it took a few tries. But this was years ago 😂

Answer

You may have broken it before after a bad fall or something earlier in life? Also if you have used tampons prior to losing your virginity that would have popped your cherry

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I'm a dancer and I broke mine by doing a split when I was 11. then when I had sex, I didn't bleed. sometimes just stretching the wrong way or riding a bike could break it. have you ever saw blood and thought spotted before you got your period or in between?

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It can also depend of if you do any sports. Some sport such as horse riding and cycling can pop it without you even knowing. I ride horses and I've never bleed after sex. 😊

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