Orgasm help 😞

I feel awful putting this but when i masturbate and orgasm it feels amazing, my legs go shaky and spazzy i cant move for a few minutes its great. But when i have sex it feelsgood but i never get the same experience, when he finishes i we stop and i am heavy breathing but i dont get the same feeling as when i masturbate. Does this mean he has never given me an orgasm? I feel so horrible. Please help.