Im 22 & in my second long relationship.  Almost 3 years now.  Were both graduating & realizing we do wanna get married but down the road.  But we do want to start a family too.  But we were raised around ppl that follow the School Career Marriage Kids Retirement Boredom.. Not saying that all couples that live that life end up in boredom.  I just know that i dont want to feel like im in a super plain spot.  I want to know is it wrong for me to break that order & not care what ppl think?? Because i want a baby badly with my man & we want it soon we just dont wanna offend our families.. Any thoughts?