Anal... How do you do it?

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I haven't done anal since I was 15 I'm 22 now. My husband has been wanting to but I chicken out. So how do you do it to where it's comfortable and wouldn't hurt him from being so tight there? Include lube brands you use and etc.

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I have to lay on my stomach for it not to hurt that bad and to me it's more enjoyable that way. And a lot of lube and go really slow at first!

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Lube, lube lube lube! And start slow and small. I use coconut oil for anal and it's WONDERFUL! Just start out slow and do lots of foreplay before going all in. Licking and/or fingering and just go bigger when you're comfortable with it. 
Just relax, go slow, use lots of lube and if it hurts STOP and slow down again. It shouldn't hurt! 
Just have fun and relax and enjoy yourself! 😊

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I perfer us standing and him behind me and I pretty much do the work to get it in there. And a toy for my clit to take mind off of it. Sry if tmi

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Why are you worried about it hurting him lol? It will hurt you way more

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lube. lots of lube.
I usually get my SO to finger my bum first to loosen it a bit and then side-lying or me on top works best for us. Unfortunately the initial pain always happens though.

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I love anal in different positions but my favorite with the least amount of pain is when I get on top backwards....

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I get the best Os from anal. It's best to work up to it... My husband goes down on me and then while he is working his magic gets me "ready"... Relax and enjoy. It's the best... Add a vibrator to the mix and it is almost too good. Mmm.

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Alcohol always works. Haha. Buttt..
I am actually the same. Ive been with my bf 2 1/2 years and weve done it only three times. It hurts! But he begs sooo.. 
I figured out that if you just tighten her a little bit and make him go in reallly slow and wait a few seconds before you start it wont hurt so bad. And then just stop flexing and concentrate on keeping your miscles relaxed. Itll start feeling better.

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I do enjoy anal. Work your way up! Start small! Not with him. Use lots of lube and it helps to be very simulated before.

Anal... How do you do it?

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