Should i tell him i stopped taking bc?

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My husband is coming back from deployment soon, weve been married a year and i want a baby. If it i leave it up to him he'll never be ready. Your thoughts?

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Yes you need to tell him you stopped taking it. No you should not be trying to have a baby with someone who is not ready, against their will. It takes two people to make a baby. Trying to do it behind his back is the quickest way to become a single mother

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Anybody who's said no needs wake up. Not telling him would be dishonest. Honesty is key in any relationship, but especially in a marriage.

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Well considering it's illegal to lie about that, yeah. Unless you want to be a horrible human being.

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Any relationship should be built on trust. He should be able to trust you. Do you really want to raise a child with someone who isn't on the same page as you?

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Having a child with a man who wants a child is hard enough. Having a child with a man who didn't want it in the first place is just going to cause some serious relationship problems. Besides the fact that in a relationship you should be open and honest... to not tell him would be betrayal in my opinion.

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You need to tell him. It isn't just up to you to have a baby. As a married couple you need to discuss it and make the choice TOGETHER.

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That would make you a horrible person

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You def need to tell him. Coming home from a deployment is not easy and takes time to adjust back into normal routine. If he were to find out you were off and didn't tell him and he isn't on a great place then this may reflect bad on your relationship. I don't know what kind of deployment or length of time he's been gone but I can tell you I didn't have a horrible deployment and coming home was still a test. If you both love each other and this is what you both really want then he needs to know. Otherwise he may feel betrayed

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It's supposed to be a partnership ! To lie about something like that and force him into a situation he might not want is totally ridiculous. It's his life too he has a right to have a say!

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Sorry i said no but ment yes!!!! Girl do it the right wsy or dont do it at all

Should i tell him i stopped taking bc?

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