I absolutely adore my family! Family isn't always what we see depicted in media or books. Each family is unique and different. My girlfriend and I both have a separate child. Her son is from a last relationship. My little girl isn't from a relationship. I'm actually her God parent but I do take care of her half time. No, we didn't birth them but they are still both of ours. We love them dearly no matter how they came to be. But, we do plan to have one together from a combo of our eggs and a donor so pray for us guys!!