Me and my daughter's father have been through a lot. He has put me through a lot. He has recently been saying that he wants to be with me. He is finally noticing that i am worth it. I dont wanna be with him anymore because, of how i was treated during my pregnancy. When i met him i thought he was single from what i was told and he turned out to be a major lier and i was left with OUR daughter to go through my pregnancy alone basically. His 2nd BM has tried to fight me over him but, i never wanted him bad enough to fight. He has talked and laughed at me with her and just all around mistreated me. He has been with his 2nd Bm on and off but, the last time they were off he claimed he wanted to get to know me better and give me a chance (the nerve of him like i messed him over)...he filled my head again and i fell in love only to be mistreated again. Now that im over him he wants me to give him another chance. He is still with BM#2 and says that she needs him cause she has nobody but, i feel like that isn't an excuse at all if he wanted to wprk things out. He recently tried to kill himself and that was out of drinking and stress. I feel like if i tell him that i dont want him then he will try to kill himself. I am in the talking process with someone else but, in no rush. How do i let him down real easy so his feelings won't hurt so bad?