Idk how to make friends..
So first off, I'm shy. It's hard for me to start a conversation and sometimes maintain one. I just feel like they are judging me. Once I get to know you, I'm fun and outgoing but when I don't know someone I find it hard to be myself. I know I'm not some quiet loser that most people probably think I am so I don't want to try to hard and say something that confirms that for them.
I want girl friends :( I have 1 female friend but I just want a few girls I can rely on and confide in Bc all I have is my bf and one friend.
I just need help with starting conversations with girls and getting away from my shyness. I think I give off a bitchy vibe just Bc I don't really talk to anyone.
I sound so lame but it's hard for me to just approach someone! This sounds very shallow of me but my image is so important to me. My Bf is popular and on the baseball team. I don't want his friends to think his gf is a total loser Bc I'm really not! I just don't know how to come out to people and talk..
I don't wanna be friends with a bunch of weird nobodies (I mean that in the least offensive way I'm sorry!!!) like, I want to be friends with people who will make me a better me and push me. Sounds so lame but I wanna be friends with the popular girls Bc they're all so close and support each other and I want that. I have 2 brothers so I feel like that's kinda held me back from knowing how to communicate with girls.
Idk just please some advice on how I can make friends and start conversations!
Does anyone have this same problem or experienced it? I'm a junior in high school and I'm tired of not having friends!!
*i know the popularity thing sounds lame but I just meant how close the girls are and they get along with everyone. I want that. *
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