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Unreciprocated feelings.

So, my boyfriend and I are in a very happy relationship. We call each other every day(we go to different colleges), we text, we see each other on the weekends and go at it like little bunnies.

But, he was a very, ahem, curious boy as a pre-teen, and masturbated daily or bi-daily for about 5 years. So, now, he has a problem with getting the same "yay!" feeling that I get when we have sex. From my point of view, he looks at it more as a task to be completed.

Unfortunately, he didn't build up any indurance in that time, and he feels terrible about having sex if I don't orgasm every time. I've tried reassuring him that everything is perfect, because it's with him(super cheesy, I know) but it doesn't seem to be getting though.

Any advice with either issue? I want to help him get more sensation out of sex, and I want him to not feel so down on himself afterwards.

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