First pregnancy and I'm due June 1st, currently 13 weeks 6 days and I still don't have a gender appointment scheduled. I still have yet to see my actual Doctor. It only makes me nervous if I think about it but I really hate that I know nothing. I've had an ultrasound but I didn't get any measurements or a heart rate. I'm trying to be patient since my next appointment is December 14th and I should finally get to meet my doctor, but knowing that 20 weeks is approaching and I don't have any gender appointment scheduled makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong. Any advice ?