29 tomorrow...

Ok, so I need some words of wisdom, advice, comfort, related stories... So I'll be 29 tomorrow. I always thought I'd be a mom by now- or be on #2 by the time I was 30. I know im still young but I can help but feel like giving up. We have been ttc for a year now and every month it's the same heart break. I have not been diagnosed with pcos, thank god, but I do get ovarian cysts. I've had surgery twice. I always hear that it will happen when I least expect it, but it's soooo hard not to think about it. I'm not getting any younger, my husband and I both have great jobs, new reliable vehicles, I nice home,loving families and both worked hard to get our education, yet it breaks my heart to see so many people not have to try, not want kids and get pregnant, or (sorry to say it) have no business having kids and nothing for us😔.  Any stories, advice ?💩