My SO and I are engaged. Been together almost 2 years and have an 11 month old son together as well as my older son from a previous relationship.

I am terrified of getting married mainly because I know so many people who are getting divorced just now after one of them got bored and cheated.

I've been cheated on before by previous boyfriends (all of them). SO cyber cheated last year while I was pregnant with our son (telling younger, skinnier girls he loved them etc was partly my fault as I wasn't giving him attention). I told him I forgave him but I wouldn't forget.

Now he wants to set a date for 2016-2019 and I'm just really scared we will be in the divorce statistic in the first year as he gets bored really easily.

Anyone else a comittment phobe?