Does anyone else ever feel threatened by past relationships or friendships. I know my husband loves me dearly but sometimes I get so threatened by his ex's. Today was just crap. I am friends with one of his ex's and she was supposed to come by after work and then continues to say only if he isn't home and that she was mad at him. Well we all got into this huge fight and she said I just don't understand that they've been through a lot and that they are close and the family and them do things I wouldn't understand. Well that pushed me over the edge. Why would you say that to me knowing were married obviously I do understand. I hate feeling like I'm being pushed to the side or that others are closer than I am to my own husband and family. He is friends with a few ex's and I'm ok with that I get a long with most but sometimes there are just certain comments that push me over the edge....