I know that when people ask when I am going to have a child or ask if I am pregnant just because I say I feel a little sick don't mean any harm but it still hurts when I get that BFN and I still have resentment because I allowed them to get my hopes up.. It's so much easier for people who have had children already with no complications to say "it will happen don't worry" or "just try not to think about it" but they have no idea how hard this emotional rollercoaster is to ride.....