I love my SO, but everything is hectic right now. I recently just took two pregnancy test and they both came up positive, So either I'm pregnant or my Medication mixed with my bc is causing a "false positive." So now with that being said he feels we should get married. We planned on getting married further down the line maybe 3 years from now, but this is too soon. Immediately when he said that he wanted to marry be because I'm pregnant, I wanted and decided to call a quits on the relationship. I don't want a baby to define my relationship,  Marry me because you love me and not because I'm carrying your child. I love him more than he could ever think but I do not want to have him pass up on many opportunities in the military because of a family, as well as I wanted more for him at the age of 20. He says he would want to be apart of everything with our child and which I would want him to, But it's stressful enough being with anyone in the military. Am I wrong for trying to end things, because I want him to succeed and have a better life? I'm just under a lot of pressure.