Feeling unappreciated over emotional

C&G <3 • Whelp we are a comfy family of 4
Does anyone else feel like now they are pregnant there SO could care less. I love my husband he is an excellent provider and takes care of us but when it comes to knowing me or being romantic thats gone now. He was downloading christmas music today i joked "you going to put some songs with words to the brass band stuff"? And he laughed saying you like this too...no i dont when i asked him if he even knew what i liked or what he was going to get me for Christmas he said something about pentatonic(who the f is that?) And a gift card to walmart cause he doesn't know what i want......really?! I asked him hun whats my favorite food and he stuttered something about tacos...no his favorite is tacos. I know he works a lot but her lately but he is sleeping all the time I've gotten to where i going out on my own and just getting the F away. But i really want time with him i bring it up and he gets pissy and says "you know I'm tired from work" ..... i just this sucks. Maybe I'm being too demanding but the nausea, cramps and fatigue are kicking my ass and i just want him to rub my back every once in a while.