Me and my fiance are trying for a baby, he thinks that a preconception visit isn't necessary and that we can go after the BFP our Angel baby was conceived by not preventing it but also not completely trying either. We just did it and it happened, well some other factors were added after the miscarriage and the doctors said that we MIGHT have a harder time conceiving again. He thinks it's a big hoax to get money out of people. But the more I research the more I lean towards really wanting us both to get checked up on. I went to the doctor not long ago and had bacterial vaginosous she said after I took the medicine I would be fine other than that everything looked perfect. Is it a big deal to do this or am I freaking myself out more?