ABORTION! Do or Dont!!??

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I'm young. And I do want a baby but I can not bring it to this world! Me and my boyfriend (btw he doesn't know... Yet) we've been together for 5 years we still want to travel and get our careers going but this child will struggle and so would I. I don't want it yet! And if I do adoption I'll just regret it bc I've met it & seen it already & ill be sad asf!! What do I do....

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Do what's best for you. It's nobody's decision but yours.

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My parents were very strict and I was in the same situation. My mom was very unsupportive because she was Catholic and against birth control and such. I did end up getting an abortion because I knew I couldn't give the baby the life it deserved. I miss it sometimes but I think adoption would have been harder knowing that your baby is growing up with someone else and finding out sometime that you gave it away. But my baby's father wasn't in the picture. I wish you the best of luck. And only you know what is best for you.

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I can imagine I would find adoption harder than having to make the decision to have an abortion. I know myself and I know it would kill me giving my baby away and I think I actually know I couldn't do it.
I don't believe abortion it wrong, but you have to make sure you think about it really seriously before making the decision as you can't go back.
But one thing is for sure, it's a decision for both of you. Talk to him.

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Don't let anyone influence your decision - at the end of the day you are the one that will be carrying the baby. If you feel as though you can't look after the baby then you make the decision, but don't forget there is also the option of adoption too! It is completely up to you :)

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This is truly a decision only you can make. I would recommend talking to your boyfriend, and your family. Either choice would be difficult, but you have to think of the good and the bad in each choice. Perhaps make an appointment with a family planning counselor as well. Best of luck.

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I'm against abortion per say but I am PROCHOICE I think people should be allowed to do what they want. And as much as it would kill me if I got pregnant tomorrow I WOULD get an abortion. Do what's best for you in your situation xx

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I don't understand how you prefer abortion over adoption it's extremely selfish of those who think it's better to get rid of the baby by abortion rather give it a life for the better it's so sad ppl prefer to abort than to give up child for adoption that is so selfish so you kill baby so you won't go through the whole adoption process are you kidding me if you have sex and get pregnant take responsibility don't want the baby or not ready give it to some loving parents who would kill to have one themselves don't abort and take the life of that innocent child just be you don't won't to suffer if you have it up you should feel 100 times worse aborting a child than choosing adoption I don't understand how people can say I would suffer knowing my child is growing up with other parents like are you serious I would think it's more of a messed up situation knowing your child is gone forever

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I was in the same page as you, but my ex was threatening to take me to court if baby was born.
I went for abortion, we definitely split, it was a hard process, no one said it's easy for everyone, if you can't have don't do it, for some reason you have the right to choose. 
But if your boyfriend is supportive and you feel you can give family a go, do it. 
But don't let people shame you if you decide to do it, no one will take care of a baby for you and there are enough suffering orphans in the world that btw they don't adopt.

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You have to do what is best for you and what will be best for the child in the long run. No one can tell you what to do; you have to make this decision for yourself. I still had feelings of grief and loss after I had my abortion even though I felt it was what would be the best decision for my situation. Either way, make sure you have someone you trust to talk to and who will be there for you throughout this journey (whichever that is you choose to take). Best wishes and I'm here if you need to talk.

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I'd abort. No shame.

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