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I've noticed a lot of women on here sort of act bitter about other people (younger women especially) being able to get pregnant.

Why does someone else's pregnancy make you angry just because you can't get pregnant? 
No I am not talking about drug addicts getting pregnant 
No I am not talking about 15-16 year olds getting pregnant (although it's none of your business whether they do or not)

Anyways my point is, your infertility has nothing to do with other people's pregnancy. 
My gosh.

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I would like to add that I'm one that finally got pregnant after 6 years of trying. Yes, I had two at home, but it still doesn't stop the hurt of wanting more. I would never be so jealous of another woman's blessing. It's not HER fault she was able to have a baby while I couldn't. Women need to stop putting each other down all the time. Wasn't that long ago that we weren't considered equal, and had to rally together to get that.

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I see people getting mad about attractive girls' baby bump photos. The comments are so rude. I'm 21 and I don't post any because people are so mean. It's probably a jealousy towards younger women or a dissatisfaction for their own lives that they need to put others down to make themselves feel superior in some way.

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I can see both sides of the coin on this. One side there are emotions coupled with a host of issues and an inability to have a healthy outlet to vent those emotions, so they get misdirected. And on the other is the thought process: "Why be bitter toward someone who has the very thing you desire? Are you so callous and selfish that you'd wish the pain you are feeling on to someone else just so they'll know how you feel?"

This sort of thing is hard, especially when the lines of communication these days give so little. How many of us truly sit down, face-to-face with someone and really open ourselves up to being vulnerable and honest? How many of us are vocally honest with ourselves. Do you sit down in front of the mirror and audibly voice the chaos dancing around in your head, specifically when you're dealing with something hard?

I don't think any human being should rip someone else apart just because of their emotional status. I think truly supporting, investing, and caring reap better results for us all. I hope more and more people take time to really think about what they wish they had in their life and strive to be that for someone else. If we all made a point to do that, we'd have the support to get through crap, and there'd be fewer people spreading bitterness.

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Never been pregnant. And I get a little jelouse but ... I never voice a negative reaction. I feel like most women try harder than others and get upset and bitter. Some women look at s.o and get pregnant but everyone is different.

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I agree with you and I had infertility! The normal reaction is to get jelous of anyone that gets pregnant before you nothing to do with age but I see people post like stupid things like since I had infertility you can't have an abortion like lmao really?

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Honestly I can say I've been guilty of getting jealous at people who are super small and skinny before during and after pregnancy but that's my own insecurities and I never comment on there stuff or anything I keep it to myself because it's my own problem. I've always had bad self image issues and lost 40 ibs before getting pregnant to the point I looked sick. I have gained 22 ibs since being pregnant and I am 27 weeks and 3 days pregnant. People get insecure and lash out which is wrong but they are the ones hurting as well.

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Thank you! Im glad someone said it !!

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