We're currently living with my mother in law, and she takes care of my niece (by marriage) who is 13 months old. She's been taking care of her for almost 7 months now, my sister in law doesn't pay her or bring her food or anything!! But now that I have my 4 month old daughter she will not take care of my daughter so that I can go to work. It just bugs the crap out of me, as much as I'd like to go back to work part time I can't because I have NO one to take care of my daughter. Her own grandmother prefers for me to find a stranger than to take care of her. Am I crazy for being angry?? She told me to go work for ups night time so that I didn't have to find anyone. Ugh I'm just so angry because the preference is so obvious. I just wanna move out already.