Last night when my SO and I were done doing the BD. I went and ruined a fantastic time for him by saying that I would have like to organism at least once a month....I feel horrible because he honestly took it to heart and looked heartbroken. He says he's doing the best he can. The problem is he just doesn't seem to help it.....we've talked about this before and I know that he's is trying. .....well for the most part. What's a girl to do?