Too many pregnancies on fb

So, I don't live near friends and family. I have my mom and dad 8 miles away. His parents and family an hour and a half away along with my friends and his too. The I have family 400 miles away and then some. We communicate through Facebook the most. I don't wanna announce any pregnancy cause I don't wanna be just another pregnant chick. It's a big deal to me. We're not pregnant yet but still. A sucky feeling when you do wanna announce it but everyone will think, oh here's another one. So I'm keeping it quiet. It's my business anyways. Family can know and some friends but that's it. Everyone else can fuck off. They're not real friends anyway.