My husband is currently deployed and I decided to go back home to NY (we are stationed in Cali). I drove my car out here so that I would have it to get around for the next 5-6 months, so it would require me driving back with everything (including baby if husband isn't back in time) or shipping my car and flying. ANYWAYS, my family wants to have a baby shower for me in a couple of months and I have no idea how that will work being we live in Cali and I only have a small SUV. Is there a way to have them purchase something and I pick it up at the store in Cali, or do I just have everyone buy online and send it to my address there?