Should I be annoyed?

Question

Boyfriend told me last night I need to do 200 squats a day so I can be better at being on top.

Usually he is because he and I like him being in control.

I think it's his way of passively saying I need to loose weight, which I am trying to do.

Right now I just want to hold off sex because sex with me on bottom is better than no sex at all.

I feel upset, do I have a right to be?

Answer

Men have no tact.... Go with how it made you feel an tell him. 
If mine told me that I'd tell him to go squat out the effing door cheeky bugger...

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Tell him he has to do them with you and see if he changes his mind.

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I think that's a bit rude. I'd be offended.

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Tell him you're getting fit in your own way and don't need to be told what to do. He may not have meant it in that way, but I would be annoyed personally. Also if you're not used to doing squats, you will be dead the next day if you try to do 200 at once lol.

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It seems like he was passively telling you he wants you on top of him more often. He obviously phrased it terribly tho.

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Men aren't known for their tact. He probably just meant it as constructive criticism to spice the bedroom romance.

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I think guys say stuff before they think about our feelings.  They always have a solution. :/ I would  be annoyed too, but he probably had good intentions.

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I would be offended. I mean I know I need to lose weight, but I would feel so uncomfortable if he pointed out it was uncomfortable when I am on top because of that. :/

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Be wary of men who criticize you.

Should I be annoyed?

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