Am I overreacting?

Question

So I've had an incredibly shit week. I've been feeling so down and upset. 
I haven't been able too see my partner as he has been so busy with work.

We were supposed to see each other tonight, which I was really excited about because all I've wanted is a hug as I have felt so upset.

But then he tells me he's going too have beer with the boys.

He hasn't seen them in a while but I just can not stand making plans with someone and getting snubbed for something or someone else.

I would have probably been okay with it any other time. But right now is when I needed him most.

So, am I right too be upset and a bit angry? Or should I just let it go?

Answer

Does he know you are having a tough time? If he knows then yes you should be upset. He doesn't doesn't know,  then he doesn't know how he is upsetting you more.

Answer

You're right to be angry and upset by it, but I wouldn't hold a grudge/turn it into something big if this isn't something he normally does (snubbing). Personally I'd just make a comment about how it would have been nice to see him or something just to let him know you were hurt by it. Good luck and I hope you get some quality time with him in the next few days xxx

Answer

I would have asked to join him... Or well my SO would have asked me because he doesn't do anything without me. If he didn't ask id be annoyed if I were you.

Am I overreacting?

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