So I'm getting annoyed my husband and I are trying to conceive and it's like every time we go to get a new test his sister always chimes in "you better not be pregnant I can't afford another niece or nephew " it's really pissing me off because it's not just her it's my whole family too they have never supported any of my pregnancies they have always given me hell till I have the baby then been like ohhhh well now don't have anymore. My husband is from a big family and we want a big family we already have 4 kids and we want 1 more I don't see the problem all our bills are payed we own our own home were almost 30 and we just want 1 more baby. No one in my family or his seems to get the fact that I have already had cancer removed from my cervix 3 times now and we just want one more baby before they take my whole cervix like my dr wants everyone is making us feel like crap because we're ttc and all I want to do is scream