Am I overthinking??

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So my mother inlaw only sends birthday cards/gifts AND Christmas gifts to him. Never me, never a shared gift, ever. Is this wrong? I feel some type of way over it, as if it's just wrong and rude. She doesn't even wish me a happy birthday yet he gets the works. Been with him for years. Thought maybe once we married she'd then change but nope!
I cook for her. Make her treats. Pump her up like rebox, send her Christmas cards, gifts and treats. She's very nice to me in general, I just don't get how she's wired.

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Yeah, that's wrong.  Once y'all got married, she should treat you like part of her family.

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I would stop sending her stuff then. She's probably never going to change.

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It's wrong but it may never change. You may have to learn to just ignore it if your husband asks her about it and nothing happens.

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That does seem weird. My mother in law gives me gifts and if she remembers my birthday, she will at least say it. That is kind of odd

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Maybe she doesn't know what to send you? I don't know how to fix that. My mom doesn't send me a card or gift anytime ever, let alone sending anything to my husband.

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That's really really weird. Does she have any other children in law?

Am I overthinking??

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