I'm just curious and this will most likely not affect our decision but: my husband is in law school and I stay home with our son. We don't use gov assistance except Medicaid. We can afford food, always buy second hand furniture and clothes so that's not a problem it's just we are using Medicaid until he's done with law school and one or both of us is working again. I'll be 30 when he finishes so we are trying for another baby. Anyone think that's "wrong"?