So my boyfriend sat me down last night and said that he's done so any things the wrong way in his life and that for once he wants to try to do things the right way and that he wants to wait for us to have a baby until I'm completely done with school and he gets some stuff taken care of so he can get his class a license for his new job where he will be making about 90000 a year . He offered for me to quit my job now or work part time and focus more on school . He also said ideally he would like for us to be married and that I deserve someone to do 100% right by me and he wants to have a good enough Job he can give our children the childhood he didn't have and he knows if we rush it that we won't accomplish the things we need to in order to give our kids that life . I came from a very fortunate family and he came from a family who really struggled and I know his heart is in the right place I'm just totally sad that I probably won't be a mom until I'm almost 30 all my friends have kids and yes they struggle but they get to be mom's . Is it wrong if me to feel bittersweet about this conversation