I know he's not cheating I'm not cheating it's nothing like that we've both been under a lot of stress I found out a month ago u needed to find a new job and it's the holidays so I know that strains people but I've always had a high sex drive and his has always been low he doesn't really initiate sex but I'm kinda noticing my sex drive is also like non existent and I'm honestly Hella upset about it . He posted a video online today of this girl on a got talent show doing a dance is a tiny leotard doing the splits and all this duff and was like wow bet none of the guys on the audience will be standing up for a while and it bugged me like some bitch on a dancing show gives u a boner but your Hella pretty girlfriend laying next to you everynught doesn't make you want to have sex . I'm just so upset and I honestly don't even know what to do . I've never had such a sexless relationship a sexless relationship . We're 25 and 27 I feel like sex issues shouldn't be happening