Need advice with my boyfriend

My boyfriend of 10 months and I have been having a lot of issues lately. There are things I don't want him to do or just really dislike that he does (smoking weed, hunting, etc) and things he doesn't want me to do (moving out of state for medical school, wants me to have kids later when I don't want to). For the past month he's been acting distant and kind of rude and he recently told me he resented me for not liking those things that he does. We almost broke up, but he decided he was going to try to let go of that resentment and be happy for the next couple weeks and see if he could still be happy with me. I just need advice on what to do, how to treat him, anything so I don't end up losing the love of my life.