My last AF was Oct. 31 ... I'm on cycle day 41 my cycle has never been irregular or not shown up. I've taken FOUR test and got all BFN not even close to being a BFP. My SO and I have sex often I planned it the first time when I was ovulating now I just don't know what is going on. I feel like I'll never make it happen. I had a doctors appointment and she told me I was to big, but I'm not that heavy set. I've seen many women over my size that has conceived beautiful healthy babies. Maybe this is the best because him and I are having problems connecting emotionally these days. Everything was making sense and now nothing is.