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I'm 35 weeks pregnant but the last few times me and my boyfriend have had sex (it seems to be a planned event now so I can be "prepared", as I have too much of a struggle having such a huge tum...shaving etc) he has to go out and buy alcohol for himself when he knows we are going to have sex. It's making me feel very unloved. On a daily basis he expects a blowjob from me...it all seems to be on his terms even the planned nights....and I'm getting fed up of it now! I feel disgusting.

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Whoa whoa whoa...hold up.  He EXPECTS a blowjob from you on a daily basis?!

And you're what, nine months pregnant with his child?

Buy a vibrator and tell him to suck his own d***.

Intimacy is a two way street.  Shaving is kind of a gamble these days.  And if he's making you feel disgusted with yourself, something has to change. He should be reassuring you, not feeding the flames of body loathing that creep into so many women's heads during pregnancy.

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I would tell that dude to suck it. My husband wants to have sex all the time and I don't cuz I'm huge and always so uncomfortable. But when we do I don't have to prepare anything. I can be as hairy as an ape and he doesn't care. He doesn't pressure me to do anything either. I feel for you. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. He needs to try to understand what you are going through.

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I'm not exactly sure what it is for me either. But my husband doesn't seem to want to have sex with me. I am 35 wks. He would make jokes like its the belly but I don't know even know for sure what it is. I've asked him if I turn him on any more or am I not pretty enough for him. I've even tried giving him blow jobs to help but he's not biting. I'm just so sexually frustrated.

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You need a new boyfriend

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Sex should be concentual from both people and there should not be any expectations that it should or has to happen when you're pregnant. With all the hormones and body changes, "the mood" can come at any time (if it does at all).
My husband is ALWAYS ready to go, but at this point between being 36 weeks, working and having a cold for a week and a half- he is leaving it up to me to make the "move". He will still hug and kiss me to be intimate but there's never the expectation on frequency or how well groomed I am.

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Its the othet way around for me. Im completely digusted with having sex with my SO. Im 4'11... 160Lbs now and i just think its gross he still.wants to have sex. I cant get wet nor turned on. I just cant do it.

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I wouldn't give it to him then.

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We barely ever have sex because he's worried and I'm uncomfortable. But he's certainly not expecting blowjobs from me. Lol he would stay disappointed.

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I'm sorry that your bf has been making you feel like it's a chore to him. It's probably all in his head and has nothing to do with you. I've actually noticed that my husband's sex drive has shot up. Every man is different. Just remember that you are beautiful and that your body is amazing, regardless of how you think you may look.

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Our sex life in the first two trimesters was smokin' hot...then the third trimester hit and my belly was too big, it became too hard to shave and the inside of my vagina seems to have no sensation. I have actually been offering my husband blowjobs and he has been saying he is too tired. So I understand what you are going through. All we can hope for is that once the baby comes and we start feeling like ourselves again the sex will go back to normal...I hope! Try not to take it too personal it is only temporary. Just wanted you to know you aren't alone.

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