My sister in law and best friend are wanting to throw me a baby shower or "sprinkle" as they're calling it...my only issue with it is, I'm having a boy, and I already have a son who will turn 3 a month after baby #2 is due. I'm worried people will look at me as being selfish bc I still have most everything from my 1st son, but the diapers and rags/towels are always helpful and the newer clothes would be nice too...I'm not sure what to do? Any thoughts are greatly appreciated!