I need advice

I really want a baby but my husband is unsure. What's a good way to make him understand how much I want a baby? I had a miscarriage about 8 months ago and it's made me depressed if someone could just please give me some advice or tips on how to convince him. And if your going to be rude about it keep you advice and opinion to yourself please this really means a lot to me and is not a joke 
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Br

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I know you really want a baby, but it's possible that he needs a little more time to get over the MC. Perhaps it's worth asking what his hesitations are and seeing what he says. Some people take more time to process things like that. It's important that both parties are 100% sure or it will cause strife and resentment down the road, which I'm sure you don't want. Hopefully he just needs a little more time. GL!

Re

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You cannot make him want a baby anymore than he can make you not want a baby. Perhaps he just need some time. Have you asked him? If he does give them some space and I know you have the fever bad but it's better for both of you to be on the same page.

Ca

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If your husband is not 100% on board, he may be nervous since the miscarriage. Have you asked him how he's feeling about it? He may be scared the same thing will happen again and he's not ready.