I'm currently pregnant, 17 weeks as of tomorrow. The father is an on again off again boyfriend for about 3-4 years? (I'm 22, almost 23 and he just turned 24) 

Here is the kicker, he possibly has another child who was just born this past year to a girl who is originally from here( upstate New York but after sleeping with our high school teacher and then suing the school after they got busted) she moved to Georgia. 

He's been dealing with all this court shit to get a paternity test done to find out if it is his. And it scares the shit out of me. 

What if it is his ? At first he wanted to move us down there, but I'm pregnant I'm not trying to uproot mine and our babies whole life for some other child? Is this wrong of me? He says now that he doesn't want us to move there. And one minute he wants to sign off rights to the child if it is his, and the next him and the lawyer are talking about visitations and everything. 

I just need some help on how I am suppose to feel about all this, or how I'm suppose to react. Do I pretend it doesn't bother me and everything is okay? Or are my emotions towards this constant stress and chaos normal? 

I feel as though he's put more time and effort and emotional strain over this other child and is neglecting my feelings and our child. I just don't know what to do anymore. It's a constant strain on our relationship. Please help :(