moving in with bf??

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so im 4months pregnant an im 19 anyways i been seeing this guy whos 31 an lives an hour away we been together for like 2 months now he accepts that im pregnant  an always ask abt the baby an hes even tols me he wishes the baby was his.hes got 2 kids already a 9 year old an a 11 year old his baby mama left him when his children were toddlers hes a really good father an cares for me alot an hes asked me to move in with him idk what to do i want to be with him so bad but my family doesnt know abt him cause they are already made at me for being pregnant an not married an i dont want them thinking badly abt me for bringing another guy into the picture i honestly dont know what to do  plz no rude comments

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I feel like 2 months into the relationship and being pregnant, you should wait to move in. It's still early on in the relationship and you have your baby to focus on.

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I would strongly suggest not moving in with someone you have only been with for 2 months. You have a lot of learning to do about each other still plus are you ready to step into a semi mom role with someone else's kids with the possibility it may or may not work out? You have to remember it's not only going to change your life, your bf's life, but those children. I say wait till you've been together for a good while.

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You need to focus on your child and not a new relationship. At 19, pregnant and not with the father, you already have a few challenges. Use this time to grow and learn about who you are since so many young mothers get caught in the revolving door of men since they dont know how to be alone. Your future self and child will thank you down the line. Good luck, you can do this!

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jus so everyone knows we hace known each other for almost 2 years an he helped me get out of my last relationship cause the babies father was abusive an yes i am thinking of my baby thats why i havent decided   i may be 19 but ive raised 3 kids since i was 12 they were my sisters kids so i no that beinng a step mom is hard an i no his kids very well they even call me abt everything  specially his daughter we are always spending time together an me an him we didnt plan on being together it jus happend an we care deeply for each other im not moving in with him cause my college is here so hes going to sale his house an before the baby is born he is going to live with me i own my own house  in the country an we are going to fix it up together alot of people judge me cause im 19 an a mom but i been a mom sice my sister had kids since i was 12 ive worked really hard to have everything i own an i am putting myself thro college im really mature an i dont want people thinking im 19 an dont know what im in for i do no  an thank u all for ur advice god bless:)

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I got pregnant after dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 months. When we found out we started staying together almost every night. We 'officially' moved in together after dating for 6 1/2 months.

We now have a baby girl who just turned 1, and we just had our two year anniversary. It can be done, but it's going to be hard. You're still getting to know each other and then having a baby on top of it and having basically no time for just you two will make it even more difficult. I wouldn't recommend it because if things don't work out, at least you already have a place to live.

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