I am having a hard time to figure out if one guy better than another. I am talking to guy that lives and go to school in one state and having sexual encounters with another one here where I live. They both have great personalities and can have great conversations but the guy I'm intimate with has many options other than me (btw we aren't in a relationship) I know him and I are both single but it's like he opened up to me with situations that not any guy would just tell a lady and I'm confused if he lookin for a best friend, girlfriend, or just another one to make a fool out of. I haven't told him nothing serious or even gave him thoughts of a relationship.. The one in another state is so genuine and he knows I don't want a relationship and doesn't want one either we both agreed to take it slow until we can actually have time to meet and i meet him this summer coming (so excited 😁) but he's more out there and I'm more to myself not so much of a craze freak. Yikes! He had so much going for himself so do I. I leave for basic January start nursing school next fall and a new job and school has given me to work in the children's hospital because I want to work with the little ones and take care for those that going to be here after we are gone. It's hard because one pleases me physically and the other one is more of "wait for perfection to finish" I'm no rusher but when we speak I'm just so eager to meet him. I'm stuck and i know that it's going to hurt at the end when one or the other decides to left and I'm here thinking I'm stupid because I didn't see it.