My husband and I have been ttc our first for a year. We decided if this wasn't our month that we'd take a break for a couple months- as in prevent so there is no hope before going down the road of getting help.Two days ago we found out his sister, trying for three months got her bfp. I love her and she was so kind in how she told me but I'm still feeling so sad for myself. Just looking for others out there. I don't know anyone who has struggled.