I'm struggling with how to deal with one of my best friends. Throughout this situation most of my family, friends, and even people I thought were just acquaintances have been so supportive. People have called, texted, and even sent cards to give me words of encouragement. I have two best friends who have been my "ride or die's" for years. One of them has checked in on me almost weekly to make sure I'm doing okay. The other has been radio silent. She has not called or even sent a simple text asking if I was okay. At first, I thought I was mad at her. However, I have realized that I'm not mad at all. I'm hurt. My feelings are hurt because I thought this person cared about me just as I care about her. On one hand I feel like she should have reached out. Then on the other hand, I don't know if I have the right to expect someone (even my best friend) to call me. I know some people are uncomfortable in situations like this because they just don't know what to say, and I get that. Has anyone else gone through this? Am I wrong for expecting her to reach out?